APRIL 21 2011 0720 - JACKSONVILLE FL: Amazing how there are those who prefer to kick a man while he is down, instead of seeking to pick the man up. Such is the way of the events that are my life.
If you have been following my blog, then you should be aware that I've recently gone through a divorce, one which I elected not to fight for personal and spiritual reasons. You are also aware that the outcome was the State of Florida imposing the maximum child support allowable for my income, and placing a wage attachment on me to ensure they get their money. Again, I did not fight it, and as such I have been paying out more that $1100 a month in Child Support, on top of maintaining health and life insurance for the children, and absorbing 60% of her liabilities. I am OK with that, and it has not been a problem at all. I just learned to make due and eek out my existance based on what was left of my salary.
Imagine my surprise to, when I arrived home after work yesterday, I found a postal notice of a certified letter affixed to my door. The sender was Kenny Law Offices. Thanks to the magic of Google, I was able to determine that Kenny Law Offices is a Family Law Firm in Tallahassee.
I thought to myself as to why they would find the need to send me a certified letter, after all I do not have the fiscal resources to support the retaining of any form of legal counsel. No, this certified letter can only mean one thing, and that is she -the X- is trying to increase the amount of Child Support I am paying.
Bear in mind that I am already paying the state maximum, and the amount left over is barely sufficient to cover my basic living expenses, yet she wants to take even more money from me. In other words, she wants to make sure I will not have money to survive.
Here I am, down on the ground, and she is taking pleasure in kicking me while I am down. Gentleman's rules of combat is not to pummel an opponent who desires not to engage in combat. I am, or have been, resisting engagement because I wish not to emotionally scar the boys; however, that all may change in light of the present set of circumstances.
At this point I am looking to God for guidance and direction. It has now become obvious that Satan is controlling her thoughts and actions. I am a patient man when needed, but as for now my patience is being sorely tested. People kick dogs on the ground, but after a while, the dog bites back. I am like that dog which had been kicked too many times. Fangs are starting to show.
If you have been following my blog, then you should be aware that I've recently gone through a divorce, one which I elected not to fight for personal and spiritual reasons. You are also aware that the outcome was the State of Florida imposing the maximum child support allowable for my income, and placing a wage attachment on me to ensure they get their money. Again, I did not fight it, and as such I have been paying out more that $1100 a month in Child Support, on top of maintaining health and life insurance for the children, and absorbing 60% of her liabilities. I am OK with that, and it has not been a problem at all. I just learned to make due and eek out my existance based on what was left of my salary.
Imagine my surprise to, when I arrived home after work yesterday, I found a postal notice of a certified letter affixed to my door. The sender was Kenny Law Offices. Thanks to the magic of Google, I was able to determine that Kenny Law Offices is a Family Law Firm in Tallahassee.
I thought to myself as to why they would find the need to send me a certified letter, after all I do not have the fiscal resources to support the retaining of any form of legal counsel. No, this certified letter can only mean one thing, and that is she -the X- is trying to increase the amount of Child Support I am paying.
Bear in mind that I am already paying the state maximum, and the amount left over is barely sufficient to cover my basic living expenses, yet she wants to take even more money from me. In other words, she wants to make sure I will not have money to survive.
Here I am, down on the ground, and she is taking pleasure in kicking me while I am down. Gentleman's rules of combat is not to pummel an opponent who desires not to engage in combat. I am, or have been, resisting engagement because I wish not to emotionally scar the boys; however, that all may change in light of the present set of circumstances.
At this point I am looking to God for guidance and direction. It has now become obvious that Satan is controlling her thoughts and actions. I am a patient man when needed, but as for now my patience is being sorely tested. People kick dogs on the ground, but after a while, the dog bites back. I am like that dog which had been kicked too many times. Fangs are starting to show.
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